Why fictional love is always better than the real world love...
In the times of Gen Ai ,Gen Z and smart world yet a habit which most people refuse to give up is the habit of reading. And the mostly appealed genre among all the youth specially the female community is the world of romantic fiction...
Us girls always tend to live in the fantasy worlds crafted by authors and directors in their respective novel and film fraternity....novel writers always very carefully build their female characters the strongest, brightest and the most vibrant and creates a whole self dependant scenario around the female protagonist...This makes us girls, mostly who is the majority of the reading society in awe of the girl aspiring to become a woman like her...
And that's exactly the point where our dearest authors introduce the main lead or the so called hero...The hero is the most beautiful person you would ever see in your life with the curly hair, brown eyes with sharp facial features adorned with all the shades of black... and yet even now if you are not already in love with the character...the writer goes on and on about his strong soul, most probably a broken heart which we expect our girl to heal in the meantime and finally a kind heart and beautiful loving soul hiding behind a facade of a rude gentleman...This is mostly the base of all novel fraternities, yet we tend to love each and every extension of these scenarios written under various names by different authors mostly female writers (which explains the craze of fiction to such extent)....
If we really think about why these novels are very irresistible to not to love or like...it's all about the same algorithm used again and again but in various aspects...the boy loves the girl like she is the bane of his existence or the only reason or hope his life is worth living...and the girl always and always falls for his charms and mostly the sense of security he provides...
But the most important question is....will this love really be found in the real world?
The most accurate answer will be a plain and clear cut no because we are all human with our own set of strengths , insecurities, mistakes and wrongs...so is it fair to ask or hope for a heavenly and dreamy love story when we are all fragile selfish hearts...
"Expect disappointment so you will never be disappointed" it's a famous movie line from the Spider man film franchise which mainly means if you expect less then you will always be content and satisfied...
So it will be most practical if we could keep fiction in our heads and be involved in finding a more realistic love which makes you stronger and better person while healing your inner child and fulfilling your hearty desires...but this doesn't at all means to settle for less standards...no this means have realistic high standards and make sure to love and heal in the same time without feeling insecurities because your love isn't a dream....it's real.
The less you expect and more the love you gift, the universe will always give it back to you in ten times more...so love more and anticipate less, then you will be rewarded with all the love you deserve in the world...
